I usually wait to end my entries about a trip with the Valuable Lessons Learned, but as we started learning our lessons as soon as we arrived, it seems more appropriate to start here.
* Telling a taxi driver there’s an extra tip if he drives fast is not a great idea if your wife’s nerves are already frazzled.
Our flight was 2.5 hours late and it took a ridiculous amount of time to get through customs; after very little sleep, we were already dazed. Rather than having a relaxed 3.5 hours between our flight and our train trip to where the wedding was being held, we had a tense 20 minutes to get to the train station. While Jimmy found the taxi ride exhilarating, I found it horrifying; I spent much of it with my eyes closed as I feared not just for our lives, but for the many people that crossed our paths in cars, on bikes or on foot. Amazingly, we survived and arrived only 5 minutes late.


Rickshaws are used throughout India, but no idea why they were allowed on the highway. We never did manage to ride in a bike rickshaw, but had many rides in auto rickshaws (which are actually 3-wheeled scooters with a vinyl roof and back and cloth on one side. They all had meters in them like real taxis, but were never used. We always made sure that the fare was agreed upon before getting in (a 40-minute ride cost under $5, so a very economical way to get around).